Quick answer: an engine's firing order is synchronous work, a differential is parallel work, and a locked diff is what happens when threads fight over the same resource. Your computer is all three at once.
Technology gets described in two ways: with more technology, or with something people already understand. The second one works better, and the best ready-made example sits in most driveways. An engine bay explains more about computing than most people expect.
Firing order: doing one thing at a time
Start with piston timing. In a four cylinder engine, cylinders fire in a strict sequence: one, three, four, two. Each step waits for the previous one, and the timing chain keeps everything in lock step. That is a synchronous process, the way a processor walks through a single stream of instructions: step two cannot begin until step one finishes, and the whole engine stalls if one stage jams.
The differential: splitting the work
Now consider the differential. It takes one input of power and sends it to both wheels at the same time, letting each wheel turn at its own speed. No wheel waits for the other. That is parallel work, and processors do the same thing when they split a workload across cores: the whole job finishes faster, but only if the pieces can be handed out cleanly.
The locked diff: when parts fight
The analogy goes deeper. A locking differential forces both wheels to turn together, and on a surface where they want different speeds, the car fights itself. Software has the same tool. A lock stops two cores from writing the same data at once, which is essential, but a lock held too long makes cores wait on each other and the benefit of splitting work shrinks to nothing. Engineers call the good version parallelism and the bad version contention, and the difference is invisible until something slows down.
What this means for your computer
The same idea explains why a well maintained engine feels responsive: nothing in the system waits for something it should not be waiting for. Good software is built the same way. When a computer feels slow, the cause is often not raw speed but contention: too many programs fighting for the same disk, memory, or network, with nothing obvious on the surface.
That is why we spend time on performance rather than on adding hardware. If your machine feels like it is labouring, bring it in for a check-up. Often the fix is a tune-up, not a new engine.